How to tell if you are sexually compatible: 5 unmistakable signs
- Mutual respect: Open and honest communication, valuing each other’s boundaries, and respecting each other’s desires are key indicators of sexual compatibility.
- Shared interests: Exploring similar fantasies, enjoying the same types of intimacy, and having a common understanding of what turns you on are crucial.
- Emotional connection: A strong emotional bond fosters a deeper level of intimacy and allows for more fulfilling sexual experiences.
- Physical attraction: Attraction and chemistry play a vital role in sexual compatibility. Mutual physical attraction can spark excitement and lead to pleasurable experiences.
- Trust and vulnerability: Feeling comfortable sharing your needs and desires with your partner fosters trust and allows for a deeper level of intimacy.
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Signs to know if there is sexual understanding
Connection: what binds you is a special bond, a’unparalleled erotic understanding that leads you to experience sexual relations charged with passion and frenzy. It is called sexual compatibility And it is not easy to find. Sometimes it can be in the person you are in a relationship with, sometimes you find it with a partner you don’t have and/or don’t want a more serious relationship with; what is certain, is that when you find this person, sexual relationships are on another level. We are not just talking about orgasms, but about complicity in intimacy and fulfilling sexual relationships and rich in emotions.
What is sexual compatibility?
Beyond chemistry, beyond erotic charge: when with the other person you are completely comfortable under the sheets and experience extreme complicity, rest assured that with that person you have an strong sexual compatibility. Not only do you like the smell of her skin and the taste of her, but you enjoy experimenting together and the games you play excite and please both of you in the usual way.
There are aspects that affect sexual compatibility and they are about:
- Physical attraction: from physical pleasure to chemical attraction, when you are close to this person you look forward to physical contact;
- Shared sexual desires: from the most extreme erotic games to cuddling and sharing moments, your desires match most of the time;
- Communication: you do not feel afraid to talk to the other person about what you like and what turns you on, about your fantasies and what, on the other hand, you do not like. At the same time, the other person communicates with you in a nonjudgmental, but open and respectful way.
Chemistry Matters
What there is between you is primarily a great chemistry: knows perfectly well the erogenous zones that drive you crazy, you understand each other on the fly, experimenting without shame or fear of being judged or judging. In a nutshell, you feel comfortable when having sex. We are not talking about infatuation, but about physical and sexual attraction that continues and changes with you (and you) over time.
Giving pleasure to the other person is the priority
In addition to a little healthy selfishness (which in sexuality exists to some extent), when you are intimate with your partner, what you think about is first of all making the other person feel pleasure: If you both focus on the high person, erotic pleasure is guaranteed. One Mutual exchange of erotic attention will cause sex and physical pleasure to be more intense, and the burden of empathy will also be greater and deeper.
Every moment is perfect for…
Room, hall, bathroom, but also car, beach, park: “anywhere” is the perfect place to paste your lips. Every time and every place become the ideal opportunity for a quickie, a quick and passionate sexual intercourse, or to play sex games without penetration or, again, to be together all night long: no matter where, how or when, your mutual attraction Is palpable and you feel it especially the two of you!
At the usual pace
Whatever kind of intimate relationship you choose to experience, you are completely on the same wavelength: neither of you “breaks” the rhythm, your “talk” during sex fuels your excitement, smiles and laughter alternate with moans and “hot” words. Everything you wish to do you do, with the right spontaneity, the fun you need, and a wonderful feeling: that of being able to there let go of each other.
Feel more self-confidence
When sexual affinity is great, your self-confidence increases. It sounds trivial, but it is not: psychologically, feeling fulfilled, satisfied and desired makes you “confident”: you feel beautiful, sexy and this only increases your self-confidence, confidence that crosses over into all spheres of life, from school to friendships. Your well-being expands across the board in all facets of daily life, making you more positive and charismatic.
